Perfume of essentials

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Happiness is part and parcel of human life , 

yet

we search it outside in objective world 

forgetting

to research it inside into subjective world.

objective world is warehouse of desires

and 

subjective world is awareness of essentials of human life .

Love , peace , kindness, gratitude and beauty are essentials to life , 

happiness is perfume of essentials.

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enjoy wasting time

The expression appeared in the book “Phrynette Married” by Marthe Troly-Curtin.

This novel was part of a series by Troly-Curtin that began with “Phrynette” in 1911.

An advertisement in Lippincott’s Monthly Magazine grandly proclaimed that “Phrynette”

was

“The Most Talked-About Book in London Today” in July 1911.

Alexander-the-great

The Three Last Wishes of Alexander the Great

. With death staring him in his face, Alexander realized how his conquests,his great army, his sharp sword and all his wealth were of no consequence. He called his generals and said, “I will depart from this world soon, I have three wishes, please carry them out without fail.”With tears flowing down their cheeks, the generals agreed to abide by their king’s last wishes.

1) “My first desire is that”, said Alexander, “My physicians alone must” carry my coffin.” so people  realize that best doctors on this earth can not save them from death.

2) After a pause, he continued, “Secondly, I desire that when my coffin is being carried to the grave, the path leading to the graveyard be strewn with gold, silver and precious stones which I have collected in my treasury”. with this Let people realize that it is a sheer waste of time to chase wealth and greed of power 

3) The king felt exhausted after saying this. He took a minute’s rest and continued. “My third and last wish is that both my hands be kept dangling out of my coffin”.so I wish people to know that I came empty-handed into this world and empty-handed I go out of this world”.

“O king, we assure you that all your wishes will be fulfilled. 

With these words, the king closed his eyes.Soon he let death conquer him and breathed his last. . . .

.

: ram0ram footnotes :

till we search our values in other’s eyes we remain poor …..

even after climbing the ladders of success . prestige , power and wealth ……

the day we become valuable in our own eyes …….

we have the wealth ……

for one thing like to call Alexander …… the great …..

not because he conquered many nations ….. or was a great king ……

but

for the truth he could speak that going empty-handed ……

Love is our inner wealth, seed of which we all bring in our closed hands…..

to plant in this world to make it a tree of happiness……

not making it a tree of happiness is empty-handed departing from this world .

 

 love this quote ……

Not  twice  this  day,  

 Inch  time  foot  gem ,

                                   This  day  will  not  come  again,                                  

Each minute is worth a priceless gem. 

Zen master ” TAKUN ”

 ( Lord Vishnu (cosmic consciousness) floating on water in dream state ) 

diamonds and all wealth will remain here only …..

thing we will carry with us is invaluable happiness earned for every breath of life ….  

In India Gold and pure sleep has one name only ……

IN Indian Language it is SONA or सोना ….

wisdom is to have pure sleep where we meet divine everyday ……  

meeting divine in every work and walk of life is no  wastage of time

but

a stage of awareness .

love all 

(c) ram0ram 

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Happiness = rarest thing

“Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know.” 

Ernest Hemingway

 Ernest Hemingway

What is intelligence?

Intelligence is defined as general cognitive problem-solving skills. A mental ability involved in reasoning, perceiving relationships and analogies, calculating, learning quickly… etc. Earlier it was believed that there was one underlying general factor at the intelligence base (the g-factor),

General intelligence, also known as g factor, refers to the existence of a general intelligence that influences performance on mental ability measures.

The existence of general intelligence was first described by Charles Spearman in 1904. According to Spearman, this g factor was responsible for overall performance on mental ability tests and can be measured and expressed by a single number, such as an IQ score.

Other definitions are:

“Intelligence is what you do when you don’t know what to do.”

“Intelligence is a hypothetical idea which we have defined as being reflected by certain types of behavior.”

ram0ram footnote

Intelligence is outer reflection of oneself  into myself .

Happiness is inner reflection of oneself into yourself.

Intelligence is one’s value in other’s eyes

Happiness is one’s value in own eyes .

love all.

(c) ram0ram

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currency note of life …..happiness

Good and God’s morning ……

this morning bringing milk by paying Indian currency notes

thought with these what we buy in time is our needs and wants

which

may bring us a joy in time which with the passage of time fades

but

we are aware of a timeless happiness

which we can buy with the currency note of life ……

taken out

from

the pocket of  NOW……

Happiness

by Raymond Carver

So early it’s still almost dark out.
I’m near the window with coffee,
and the usual early morning stuff
that passes for thought.

When I see the boy and his friend
walking up the road
to deliver the newspaper.

They wear caps and sweaters,
and one boy has a bag over his shoulder.
They are so happy
they aren’t saying anything, these boys.

I think if they could, they would take
each other’s arm.
It’s early in the morning,
and they are doing this thing together.

They come on, slowly.
The sky is taking on light,
though the moon still hangs pale over the water.

Such beauty that for a minute
death and ambition, even love,
doesn’t enter into this.

Happiness. It comes on
unexpectedly. And goes beyond, really,
any early morning talk about it.

http://100.best-poems.net/happiness.html

Raymond Clevie Carver, Jr. (May 25, 1938 – August 2, 1988)

was an Americanshort story writer and poet.

Carver was a major writer of the late 20th century

and

a major force in the revitalization

of the

American short story literature in the 1980s

eat time wisely

My grand daughter 7 years always bring some kind of a intelligent quiz so this morning her quiz to me was ……… it is a table but not of wood or iron but it is flexible and folding ? …..

After lot of thinking as I could not answer so looked towards her for my silent defeat which is the main cause of asking her these quiz so she proudly explained ……. time table

so I asked what is the use of time table …… so with smile she replied …… to eat time wisely ….

Many time I share the wisdom of this eating time wisely ……. off course there are hundreds of time management techniques and methods but a wisdom should be such which a child as well as a educated young and old could understand with minimum effort …..

science of social conversations is to create short , sweet and simple methods so a human can fulfill health , family , work ,and social obligations and to perform them in limited time one needs to make priorities and list them as per their importance ….so to understand this importance I suggest them with four steps ….

1. Air ……. as we can not live without it for more than a minute or two so select from the list of works of this nature and number them as URGENT or U1 , U2 , U3 , U4 , and so on …..

2. Water ….. as we cannot live without water for more than few hours so select from the list of works of this nature and number them as IMPORTANT or I1 , I2 , I3 , I4 , and so on …..

3. Food ….. as we cannot live without food for more than a day so select from the list of works of this nature and number them as GENERAL or G1 , G2 , G3 , G4 , and so on …..

4. Chocolate …… as we can live without chocolate for more than a week or month so select from the list of works of this nature and number them as MISCELLANEOUS or M1 , M2 , M3 , M4 , and so on …..

so to list them as per nature and must try to complete them all in a balanced manner will give us a blissful and healthy meal of time …… knowing to work on the right task as right time will give us a life of peace love and happiness ……

and not completing the work in order from urgent to miscellaneous will make miscellaneous and general works climbing the ladder of urgent ….making life stressful , lack of quality time ……for self , family and society.

this is my own personal way of life with which I walked from New Delhi to New York with ease and always had abundance of time for myself , family , and work and society and sports and music ….. and with same ease now a days write with happiness all my different pages ….on different subjects ….

love all.

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